No, polyamory is not just about sex—it's about love, trust, and ethical connection with more than one person.

Polyamory means having multiple consensual, romantic relationships at the same time, with everyone involved aware and respectful of each other. While sex may be part of some polyamorous relationships, the core of polyamory is about emotional bonds, communication, and building meaningful connections—not casual sex or cheating. It's about choice, honesty, and love in many forms.

Yes, polyamory can absolutely be healthy—just like any other relationship style.

When built on honest communication, consent, respect, and clear boundaries, polyamorous relationships can be loving, supportive, and deeply fulfilling. People in healthy poly relationships often prioritise openness, emotional maturity, and regular check-ins to keep everyone on the same page. Like any relationship, it takes effort—but with trust and mutual care, polyamory can be just as healthy and stable as monogamy.

No, polyamory is not a phase or a modern trend—it has deep roots throughout history and across cultures.

While the term “polyamory” is relatively new (coined in the 1990s), the practice of having multiple loving relationships has existed for centuries. In many Indigenous cultures, such as some Native American and African societies, non-monogamous relationship structures were normal and respected. Ancient civilisations like the Greeks and Romans also had more fluid views on love, partnership, and intimacy.

What’s new is not the concept—it’s the open, ethical, and communicative framing of polyamory in today’s society. As people become more open about different ways of loving, polyamory has become more visible—but it’s far from a passing phase. It’s a valid, enduring relationship choice with a rich and diverse history.

Yes, some polyamorous people do get married—but it depends on the individuals and their relationship structure.

Many poly people choose to marry one partner while still maintaining ethical, consensual relationships with others. Others may not legally marry at all but form deep, long-term partnerships with multiple people. Because legal systems usually only recognise monogamous marriage, polyamorous people often build chosen families and use personal agreements, ceremonies, or contracts to honour their commitments.

Marriage in polyamory can be as much about love, trust, and intention as it is in any relationship—just expressed in ways that reflect their unique dynamic.

You may feel that your love or connection isn’t limited to one person. You may find yourself naturally building deep relationships with more than one person — emotionally, romantically, or sexually. Or you may simply feel constrained by traditional expectations of monogamy. Being poly isn’t about quantity — it’s about alignment, honesty, and possibility.

Disclaimer: This is a supportive guide, not a diagnostic tool. You define your relationship style. You deserve love that fits who you are.