Non Binary Collection
Non Binary Collection
Non Binary Collection
Celebrate identity with handmade non-binary jewellery — crafted with pride, purpose, and personal meaning. From affirming pronoun pieces to quiet symbols of strength, each design is made to honour truth, fluidity, and self-expression. Conjured with care for those becoming who they are.
Our non-binary collection honours that truth, that power, and that right to be seen, affirmed, and celebrated. 🖤
Non Binary Education Area
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Non-binary is an umbrella term for gender identities that exist outside the traditional categories of male and female. Some non-binary people feel like a mix of both. Others feel like neither. Some are fluid. Some are static. Some use the term “non-binary,” while others prefer genderqueer, agender, bigender, or something entirely unique to them.
There’s no single way to be non-binary — and that’s the beauty of it.
Non-binary people have always existed. This is not a trend or a phase.
It’s a truth — deeply felt, often fought for, and absolutely valid. -
Use someone’s correct name and pronouns. Don’t assume. If you’re not sure, ask kindly or wait until they share them with you.
Avoid phrases like “born a girl/boy.” Try “assigned female/male at birth” instead — it’s more accurate and affirming.
Don’t ask invasive questions. Things like someone’s body, medical history, or past name (called a deadname) are private and should only be shared if the person chooses to.
Include non-binary people in conversations about gender. That includes everything from policy to fashion. Make space.
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Listen without assumption. Let them define their experience in their own words.
Respect their journey. Their gender may evolve. That’s okay. It’s theirs to explore.
Correct others when it’s safe to do so. Use your voice to create safer spaces.
Support businesses, artists, and creators who are non-binary or who make inclusive work — just like here at Custom Coven.
Be patient. If you make a mistake, apologise, correct yourself, and move forward with care.
Non Binary FAQs
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Some non-binary people use they/them pronouns, but not all.
They/them is a gender-neutral set of pronouns that many non-binary people feel comfortable with because it doesn’t suggest a male or female identity. For example: “Alex said they were running late, so I’ll wait for them here.” This allows people to be referred to without being placed in the male/female binary.
However, non-binary people are diverse, and so are their pronouns. Some may use he/him, she/her, a mix like she/they or they/he, or even neo-pronouns like xe/xem or ze/zir. It all depends on what feels right to the individual.
The best way to know what pronouns someone uses is simply to ask respectfully or listen to how they introduce themselves. Using the correct pronouns shows you respect their identity.
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Using any pronouns, for example they/them is just like using “he” or “she,” but gender-neutral. Here are a few examples:
“This is Jamie. They just started a new job.”
“I saw someone drop their phone. I hope they come back for it.”
“Alex said they’re running late, so I’ll wait for them here.”
You’re probably already used to using “they” for someone when you don’t know their gender—this is the same, just more intentional and respectful.
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Correct yourself quickly, apologise briefly, and move on. What matters most is that you try and learn.
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Some non-binary people identify as transgender, and some do not. Both are valid.
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Some do — through clothes, names, hormones, surgery, or nothing at all. Transition looks different for everyone.
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Yes, it’s okay—and important—to correct someone who misgenders someone, as it shows respect and support.
You can do it politely by saying something like, “Actually, Sam uses they/them pronouns,” or “Just a heads-up, Alex goes by she now.” Keep it calm and kind, especially if the person made an honest mistake. If you're in a group, you can correct gently without making a big scene. Being a quiet but consistent ally helps create a more inclusive space.
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No, clothes do not determine gender—they’re just fabric shaped by culture and time.
Throughout history, clothing has changed dramatically between cultures and eras. For example, high heels were first worn by men in the 1600s, and dresses were common for all young children, regardless of gender, well into the early 20th century. What’s seen as “masculine” or “feminine” clothing is socially constructed and constantly evolving.
Gender is about identity, not appearance—what someone wears doesn’t define who they are.
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You may feel like neither male nor female, or like your gender shifts. Maybe binary labels never felt right. Explore how different terms, names, or pronouns sit with you. There’s no “test” — only your experience.
Disclaimer: This is not a diagnostic tool. Take your time, seek safe spaces, and know that your gender is yours to define.